Wesley's school year

Wesley was in the junior kindergarten program this year at Captain R Wilson, the public school close to our house.  He went to school every Tuesday and Thursday and about one Friday a month.  A fun part was that his classroom was next door to his brother's class so they saw each other often throughout the day.  God really provided for Wesley and for me by giving him a wonderful and loving teacher.  She had a gentle and calm spirit and she seemed to be a perfect fit for Wesley.  She's having a baby soon, and I will really miss her next year.  I think Wesley will too, but we're trusting that God will provide another great teacher for him as he is in Senior Kindergarten.

He still has a few days left of school, but last week, the JK and SK classes put on a concert at the school for all of the parents.  His class sang, "The Ants Go Marching Two by Two" and they were so cutely decked out in ant antenna.  Afterward the concert, the parents followed the children back to the classsroom where we could see all of the work they had done during the year.

 Wesley with his classmates in his room after the concert

Friends and Father's Day

Since we arrived home from Japan two weeks ago, we have been quite busy.  My friend, Saho, from Nashville was in town with her family, and we had a wonderful evening together.  We talked a lot about Japan since she and her husband grew up there.  It was neat to hear her perspective after seeing the country first-hand.  Her children and ours played a lot together in Nashville, so it was very fun to be together again.

 Our dear friends from grad school days also came to visit.  Ten years ago, we used to hang out together as couples.  Now, we have six children between both families.  What a fun adventure to be together again!!

Last but not least, we celebrate Tim today!  I am so thankful for the wonderful daddy he is to our three children.  They are blessed to have him in their lives, and I am a better mom because I have him by my side.

I also think of my dad today and am thankful for his love, support, and presence in my life.  I am looking forward to his visit in July.

What a month it has been and it's only half way through!

Final Post on Japan

Our last part of the trip was a visit to Kyoto, the country's old capital city.  Kyoto is full of temples and beautiful gardens, so we spent most of our time touring some of those.  Below are pictures of the Golden Pavilion, a bamboo grove, and Ginkaku-Ji (translated the Silver Pavilion).  The temples were architecturally appealing yet held little value to me as they, in my eyes, were just empty buildings.  I really enjoyed the tranquil gardens surrounding the temples.  Japan is full of beautiful flowers and vegetation .  Everywhere you looked, you would see flowers-from the temple gardens to the countryside to the pots outside of a residential doorstep.

One thing Tim and I found quite charming was the groups of junior high students in their school uniforms touring the city.  You would see groups of four or five students everywhere without adults or teachers.  Many students during their middle school years take class field trips to the city.   Despite the adult supervision, they all seemed to be doing what they came there to do: learn more about their country's culture and history.   We had several groups timidly approach us with their open books in front of them.  Part of their assignment was to "interview" English speakers since they start learning English in junior high.  They would slowly read the questions in English to us and look at us in anticipation as they awaited our answers.  They were just so adorable.  Then, they would always want to take a picture with us.

Our five days in Japan went by very quickly, and I had mixed feelings when the week came to an end.  I was so ready to come home and see my children, yet it had been a really neat week.  I was very thankful for the opportunity.  I find it very interesting learning about other cultures, and it is always a good experience to find yourself as the minority and learn how that position feels.

Japan (part two)

After Kamikochi, we traveled by bus and train to Takayama, a small but charming city in the mountains.  We stayed in a western-style hotel that had an onsen on the top floor.  An onsen is a hot-mineral spa bath.  This one had a bath for women and a separate bath for men.  We were trying to experience many Japanese customs so we decided to see what the onsen was like.  We were both a little hesitant because you enter the onsen without any swimming suits or clothes.  Fortunately, it was not crowded and I was the only one on the women's side.  The procedure for partaking of the onsen is to soap and rinse off using the a special bathing area before getting into the onsen.  Usually a Japanese robe or pajamas along with the slippers are provided in your room so you can wear those to and from the onsen.  Tim looked really cute in his.  Too bad I don't have any pictures of that!  It ended up being really relaxing and an experience we both enjoyed.  Our motto for the week was, " When in Japan, do as the Japanese."

After our authentic Japanese dining experience in Kamikochi, we were feeling a little less adventurous and hoping for a little comfort food.  Our travel book told us about a Mexican restaurant owned by a Japanese man who was very enthusiastic about Mexican food.  We found the restaurant and had a delicious dinner made and served by the owner.  You never know what you'll find in the most unusual places.

 some private, old homes in Takayama that are still residences with merchant areas on the lower levels

 where we stayed in Takayama

 Sometimes there was little English to be found, so navigating around could be a little tricky.

 One of the many temples in Takayama.

Bring on the Mexican food!

Japan-part 1

Yes, we went to Japan!  Tim has been traveling there for a few years now with his job, and we've talked about how neat it would be if I could join him.  The opportunity arose, and I jumped aboard.  He traveled there a week ahead of me to attend meetings and complete some tasks at Nissan.  I joined him at the end of his work week, and we spent a week of vacation traveling all over the country.  It was a very fun adventure, and I am so thankful I got to experience such a lovely country with my husband.

The first night was spent in Yokohama which is outside of Tokyo as well as the headquarters of Nissan.  Tim took me to a restaurant that served ramen and it was delicious.  When I thought of ramen, my mind went to the cheap bundle of noodles wrapped in plastic.  The ramen in Japan is so different and so tasty.

After Yokohama, we traveled by train and then bus to a mountainous region called Kamikochi.  It is in the "Japan Alps", and the scenery really was breathtaking.  We spent a night in a ryokan which is a tradition Japanese inn.  They served us an interesting dinner and breakfast in traditional Japanese style.  I can't say that everything was overly delicious, but the presentation and attention to detail was striking.  After I spent a week in Japan, I really appreciated how Japanese people take pride in how they present things, meticulously defining each detail in a way that is very attractive.  The country is very clean which is amazing in that it is such a populated place.  No one throws trash on the ground and everyone does their part to keep things clean.

While in Kamikochi, we enjoyed a morning of hiking which was highlighted by seeing several monkeys up close on one part of the hike. What a great way to start the week!

 practicing my use of chopsticks while waiting for a train

 a sitting area in our room in the ryokan

We slept on futon mattresses on the floor and could hear the rushing waters from a river outside our window.

 the beautiful but not as tasty dinner

We celebrated our anniversary on this evening.  Happy 13 years together!!

 outside the ryokan in Kamikochi

Konnichiwa

It has been an action packed week.  Jo will have to fill in the details later, but we are tired and about to go to bed for the last time in Japan on this trip.  From waking to a smallish earthquake while asleep on the 23rd floor to riding on a bullet train, we have had a trip full of new experiences.  Being away always reminds me how much I miss my kids, and I am ready to get home to see them.

Kamikochi - Wow a perspective of Japan I didn't know.

 New adventures in eating.

 The famous Shinkansen Bullet Train - speeds up to 186 mph make traveling by train quick!

 The Ginkaku Shrine in Kyoto has beautiful gardens around it.

One year

It has been one year since we left our home near Nashville and moved to the great white North.  Actually, it wasn't that white this year, but next year could be a different story.

As I reflect back over the year, I have a mix of emotions flood my heart.  We have had quite an adventure exploring new places.  I think of a beautiful, peaceful lake in Quebec and the loons that called so gently over the fog-covered water in the stillness of the morning.  I think of Ottawa with its grand Parliament buildings and a story to tell of a country made of immigrants.  I think of my son's classmate from Dubai and the tears his mother shed as we shared an understanding of being far from home.  I think of the sound of bike tires on gravel as I followed my boys through the green trails that weave in and out of our neighborhood.  I think of the kindness my Father has shown to me through a friend who has made a place in her life for me knowing all the while that I will be leaving almost as quickly as I came.  I think of my Bible study leader and the way she saw my broken heart when I had no words, just tears.  I think of my brother, my nephews and my niece, my dear sister-in-law, and another birthday party I am missing in Nashville.  I think of my husband rising to the challenge presented in this new role in Nissan.  I think of my little girl who has now lived in Canada longer than any other place she has been.  I think of the lump in my throat I desperately tried to force down as I walked my son to his new school back in  September, and I recall with great gratitude the way God perfectly placed him with a loving teacher who we all adore.  I think of my friends, my neighbors still in Nashville, still showing me they care.  I think of how I miss them and how great it will be to see them again.  I think of the way it will hurt to leave the new friends we've made here.

I think of how God has provided...not always in the way I had wanted...not always as quickly as I had hoped...but always in His perfect and wise way.

Spiritually, it has been a dry year for me.  At times, I have felt like I am simply going through the motions.  Yet, the truth is God has never been far.  He may have been quiet at times, but I know He has always been with me.  And I am thankful for in the last few months, I have felt the cracked, hard soil begin to soften.  It's not so dry anymore.

Happy Birthday, Graham!

Click below to see Graham's year at a glance in this video.

Happy Birthday, Graham!

Andrew

My cousin, Andrew, from Nashville came to visit us this past week.  I was really looking forward to seeing him as I am very close to him and have missed him a lot this past year.  We did have a great time together and we were all sad to see him leave.  I love how he always looks for ways to help like doing the dishes after dinner, throwing to baseball to Graham in the backyard, and entertaining the kids by making tied dye shirts together.  I'm telling you...some girl is going to find a great hubby in him!!  Know any single girls in their late 20's?  I'm always trying to set him up.

Adoption still rocks!!

Tim and I shed fresh tears tonight as we shared the story God wrote about our family to some friends from church.  It never gets old.  God's work never gets old.  The blessing of our daughter never gets old.  When we started the adoption process, we dreamed of changing one little girl's life.  We had no idea how God was going to use her to change us.  I thank Him everyday for blessing us with our three children.

Please take a few minutes and watch this video about Ordinary Heroes.  Maybe God is calling you to change one life and in return have your life changed, too.

Praise God that we serve a living God!  He never gets old!!


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aFCtG40RdTE&feature=youtu.be

He cares.

This week I've been trying out new things with Lidiyanna's hair. I've spent more time than I thought I would watching Youtube videos trying to get tips from women who know a lot more than I do about African hair. I went to Whole Foods and bought some ingredients to make a hair spritz. I've listened to my sweet daughter scream while I tried to style her hair. I enlisted help from a friend and we worked together on Lidiyanna's hair.

At the end of the week, I felt more confused and discouraged about her hair than I did at the beginning of the week.

Then, at church of all places, I get a comment from a woman about Lidiyanna's hair that really made me feel even more insecure. It really irritated me and of all weeks to hear this! It seemed like really bad timing.

Here's how much my Savior loves me. Here's how much He cares about even the little, insignificant details like my daughter's hair and my hurt feelings. I'm at church today, and I see the woman. Oh, great! What is she going to think about Lidiyanna's hair today, I think.

Well, she comes up to me, puts her hand on my shoulder, looks me in the eyes and apologizes. She said God laid it on her heart that she should not have made that comment to me, and she never wanted to offend me. She kept saying how sorry she was, and I looked back into her brown eyes and knew she was sincere.

As Tim and I were walking away, he asked me who had told her that it hurt my feelings. What made her apologize? The God of the universe who is saving souls, caring for orphans, speaking through missionaries, and changing lives knows the private things of one mama's heart. He cares and He watches out for me!

A Brother's Prayer

Wesley's prayer tonight at dinner:

Thank you, God, for Graham, my best friend.

A Greater Appreciation

Tim's mom had planned a trip to visit us in Canada this February and had been hoping to see some snow since she doesn't get to see much of it in Memphis. Because we have gotten very little snow this year in the Toronto area, we thought it would be fun to take her a few hours north of Toronto to the Muskoka area. This is the area where we went with our small group a month ago. We rented a small cottage and enjoyed a weekend of playing in the snow. The boys were outside most of the time, but Lidiyanna preferred to stay cozy and warm with Perpy inside. We made some great memories, and enjoyed our time with Perpy. I'm glad we got to show her some more of Canada's beauty.

Graham and Wesley had fun jumping off of a snowman and landing in the fluffy, deep snow.

Graham and I did some ice skating in a park where they had flooded a road and made it into a skating trail.

My appreciation for Canada continues to grow the longer we are here. It has been a hard adjustment moving to Canada, but now I can say I'm thankful to be here. I'm thankful for the friends God has provided for us, the boys' school and their wonderful teachers, and the amazing adventures we are having here. Tim continues to have stressful days at work, and we wish his work schedule was not as demanding. Yet, we can see God's hand all around us, and I know we will look back on our time in Canada with tender and grateful hearts.